Right now you don’t fully understand why it is you have or need a sister, let alone two of them. Some days it may appear that your sisters exist to get in your way and touch your things. The three of you are learning how to live together under the same roof, with access to the same toys.
I know, because like you, I grew up with two sisters. A few things I learned very early growing up with sisters. 1. They cry a bit more than I am generally comfortable crying. 2. They have more to say than I generally feel comfortable saying. 3. They enjoy a different version of make-believe and pretend than I do.
I know a brother would have been nice. But you and I don’t get to decide those sorts of things (and don’t expect a sibling of any kind at this point). But, Evan, believe me when I tell you that you need your sisters, both now and in the years to come. What can seem like an inconvenience at this point will in time prove to be one of your greatest assets. Growing up with two sisters can sometimes feel like you are on the outside of a strange world looking in….that never changes. But all of that time spent up close with your sisters….all of the confusion and frustration that comes with trying to navigate those relationships will ultimately make you a better man….and one day, a better husband and Father to your own children.
You and I have lots to learn about Women. Much of that education will come from your family, and from Adeline and Malina in particular. I owe so much of how I see the world, how I view other people, and even the way I communicate, to growing up with sisters. One day, you’ll see as I do now, that sisters are a gift we brothers often take for granted. Rarely do I tell them just how much I miss them….and how deeply I love them.
So for now, you don’t have to wear the wig or pretend to be the “student” or the “daddy”. But it wouldn’t hurt to take Luke Skywalker on a ride in the Barbie mobile once in a while.
Love your sisters….they will always be there for you.